woke up an hr ahead of schedule today.
i think its a good thing coz i got to laze around abit n sort out sum thots b4 my day begins.
wkend was good. started with a fri nite supper after work with sum of e pri sch guys.
its nice to see them coz its alwaz happy stuff we talk abt.
all e poking fun at each other, talkin abt pri sch -lala days..
hmm, feels really young being with them actually..
its not like they're immature or anything but sumhow in my eyes,these boys neva fully grow up. i mean, they seem to be alwaz happy, no secrets, nutting to hide, everything is str-at-ur-face.
hmm, quite disneylandish come to think of it.
sat was spent teaching n meeting up with a dearie gf n friend for shopping and a very early auspicious dinner at 5pm. haha. i think my frien's mum read the chinese zodiac, fortune-telling mantra and told us to eat b4 7.30pm for good luck the whole yr.. =) quite cartoonish actually but we did as we were told.
n i think it did work coz i made a call home after tt n sum good things did happen outta it. evening ended with the gang of us chilling out at hotel-intercon n coming to my place to pick up pineapple tarts.
my thots after that;
if one fine day comes along where u find more reasons to dislike ur bf/gf than the reasons u like him/her, is there still a point in the r/s?
well, to me i cant imagine that coz the reasons i love that person overwhelms his weaknesses. or i'd like to think i do that.
(den again, this statement may be inaccurate coz of its grammar, with it being in present tense which im not sure if its appropriate)
sumhow, shouldnt love take the first place n be all-consuming over wadeva weaknesses that person has?
i think its a good thing coz i got to laze around abit n sort out sum thots b4 my day begins.
wkend was good. started with a fri nite supper after work with sum of e pri sch guys.
its nice to see them coz its alwaz happy stuff we talk abt.
all e poking fun at each other, talkin abt pri sch -lala days..
hmm, feels really young being with them actually..
its not like they're immature or anything but sumhow in my eyes,these boys neva fully grow up. i mean, they seem to be alwaz happy, no secrets, nutting to hide, everything is str-at-ur-face.
hmm, quite disneylandish come to think of it.
sat was spent teaching n meeting up with a dearie gf n friend for shopping and a very early auspicious dinner at 5pm. haha. i think my frien's mum read the chinese zodiac, fortune-telling mantra and told us to eat b4 7.30pm for good luck the whole yr.. =) quite cartoonish actually but we did as we were told.
n i think it did work coz i made a call home after tt n sum good things did happen outta it. evening ended with the gang of us chilling out at hotel-intercon n coming to my place to pick up pineapple tarts.
my thots after that;
if one fine day comes along where u find more reasons to dislike ur bf/gf than the reasons u like him/her, is there still a point in the r/s?
well, to me i cant imagine that coz the reasons i love that person overwhelms his weaknesses. or i'd like to think i do that.
(den again, this statement may be inaccurate coz of its grammar, with it being in present tense which im not sure if its appropriate)
sumhow, shouldnt love take the first place n be all-consuming over wadeva weaknesses that person has?
4 Comments:
hey babe...wat if the weaknesses of that person make u feel hurt, either thru the things that he does due to his weaknesses, or simply because it makes him such a bad person in general, then would u still love him so whole-heartedly?
hehe i dunno. i'd love to think love reigns over all else too. and indeed many times it does. for haven't we accepted others' flaws so many times. but i feel that if his weaknesses is overwhelming n make u feel hurt and unloved, then it's time to let go.
hehe.. gal, im not that unfortunate. dun worry. i wasnt refering to me. juz sum thots from a conversation i had with a friend. i think love is a strange thing. couple do things to hurt each other sumtimes intentionally even. romanticism n it adds on to e spark.but is that true love?who knows n who r we to judge.. well, to me, love like uve neva been hurt, dance like no one's watching. even if it hurts me, if i feel that its worth it, i'll fight on even if im battered n torn.life will still go on. n we all grow stronger. ps, i alwaz haf good taste. keke. u noe i wun fall for sumone whose's a bad person.
hmmz, but i was thinkin abt wad u said earlier, if that guy makes me feel hurt thru the things he do outta his weaknesses, hmmz, i think if im certain of his love, i'll overlook it.
=)
wa sei. i think i sound like a saint. *my ex bfs r prob all going 'riteeeeeeee' if they see this.
hahaha. aiya. i juz tok only la. love causes irrationality.
ppl in love r def not the most sanest ppl arnd.
hmm gal ah, we must love someone for something bout him that makes us swoon right? hmm like something that shows he's a good guy and that he's worth devoting our whole hearts for. if he's (hypothetical person) so full of weaknesses as to hurt us so often, then we still overlook everything and love him wholeheartedly, wouldn't it be blind love, or just loving for the sake of loving someone?
hehe dunno la. or maybe i shld rephrase myself in the earlier post. i think wat i meant is more like, we should always accept certain flaws and weaknesses in the pple we love, but come a certain point, we shouldn't be pushed around. n it also depends on wat types of weaknesses. if ur guy bullies children n pets (u only found out halfway thru), but u love him, then u'll still accept him for who he is meh? or just simpler things like lying to u, being not nice to ur family.. dunno leh, to me these are the things i'll nv accept. n well, sometimes u only know pple much betta after sometime into the rship wad, so it may not be a matter of good taste or not mah. lol.
anyway hypothetical only k. my guy not like that. duh. or we won't be 3yrs n running. hahaha. hmm looks like maybe someone is secretly (insanely) in love? hmm anyway just my own views k, to each his/her own love philosophy la. eh we're like having our own private dialogue! write so much, machiam one post in itself. lol.
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